We can steal but we can not kill the Curiosity
Hello Patriarchy people, oh its offensive word right, let me recreate the sentence.
"Hello, men who have the power to control things".
Hello Feminist people, (the people who think in a different perspective, let me clarify what the "feminist" word means) the people who fight for equal rights & opportunities.
Hello LGBTQIA+ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Pansexual, Transgender, Genderqueer, Queer, Intersexed, Agender, Asexual, and Ally community). A few people whom you consider different, but still they are also humans who have the same basic rights, but you never accept those humans which makes more inhuman behaviour. It's okay to take "time to accept" but to treat them as aliens! this is not right. They are just people among us.
Giving such kind of introduction is making weird to read this content right?
My intension is to make you people aware of the fact that these things happen in our society.
If a person/people is/are committing the crime, we generalize the things, but we never see the actual root cause what happened.
For us: There is nothing called good or bad in crimes, Crimes are crimes. But we as normal citizens never do an investigation until unless the crime is done by your child.
Curiosity is a strong desire to know or learn something. This same curiosity sometimes it is acting as a weapon in our life.
We can steal anything from a child, including privacy, but we can't stop the curiosity of a child.
Once we all have faced this phase called curiosity and still facing. But we never bothered all things to be known.
A child starts getting information after he/she is born. Few things stay for a prolonged period. One of the information is sex education.
If you are born, the parent(s) make the females do household work, whereas, males work from the outside like purchasing, playing, etc., These all are running from ancestral days, and people are facing still. But there is the parent(s) who treat their child/children in an equal manner. I appreciate because they make you prepared so that they can survive independently on their legs. As a child watches the romantic scene/condom ads on Television, either the parents change the channel or else they send us to bring water or fill water. As a child watches such things, his/her curiosity level increases. Example, “what is happening?","why it is used?" and many more. If a child dares to ask those questions the parent(s) either skip this topic or else scold the child.
Few parents understand the curiosity level of their child. So, they try to explain their child in a very creative way so that a child can at least understand the things going around him/her. Example, there is a YouTube series named "sex chat with Pappu and Papa" by "YFlims", where a child is conversing with his dad about the things going around him and his father explains everything in an informative manner so that his child won't be misled.
The next stage in school, where he/she have the lesson of Sex Education. Few schools either skip those chapters or else teach partially. And some schools try to teach sex education in an educative manner. There is one more point wherein schools/colleges/any clubs where they accumulate only either male or female separately and make them focus on their dressing sense, hairstyles, etc.,
Why aren't they saying in front of the whole class students where boys and girls are sitting and make them understand that "your way of seeing matters, the vision must be proper".If they don't say such , the lack of information can lead to more curious about the other gender, whether it is a boy/girl/anyone can take the wrong decisions (like wrong socialization, sexual assault, etc.,) in minor age. Due to any child if a child gets influenced in his/her manner, either he/she ends up with suicide or else overcomes by problems (like psychological or physical problems).
I felt counselling must be done to the victims as well as the people harmed.
If a child never thinks to take the wrong step the parents must be friendly and make their child comfortable so that he/she has the freedom to convey about their curious questions so that you (as a parent) can clear in your perspective by delivering the correct content. If you are unable to deliver the things please make sure at least elders (example, teachers, doctors, etc..,) can resolve who gives correct information.
Teach yourson child how to respect women Everyone.
"Hello, men who have the power to control things".
Hello Feminist people, (the people who think in a different perspective, let me clarify what the "feminist" word means) the people who fight for equal rights & opportunities.
Hello LGBTQIA+ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Pansexual, Transgender, Genderqueer, Queer, Intersexed, Agender, Asexual, and Ally community). A few people whom you consider different, but still they are also humans who have the same basic rights, but you never accept those humans which makes more inhuman behaviour. It's okay to take "time to accept" but to treat them as aliens! this is not right. They are just people among us.
Giving such kind of introduction is making weird to read this content right?
My intension is to make you people aware of the fact that these things happen in our society.
If a person/people is/are committing the crime, we generalize the things, but we never see the actual root cause what happened.
For us: There is nothing called good or bad in crimes, Crimes are crimes. But we as normal citizens never do an investigation until unless the crime is done by your child.
Curiosity is a strong desire to know or learn something. This same curiosity sometimes it is acting as a weapon in our life.
We can steal anything from a child, including privacy, but we can't stop the curiosity of a child.
Once we all have faced this phase called curiosity and still facing. But we never bothered all things to be known.
A child starts getting information after he/she is born. Few things stay for a prolonged period. One of the information is sex education.
If you are born, the parent(s) make the females do household work, whereas, males work from the outside like purchasing, playing, etc., These all are running from ancestral days, and people are facing still. But there is the parent(s) who treat their child/children in an equal manner. I appreciate because they make you prepared so that they can survive independently on their legs. As a child watches the romantic scene/condom ads on Television, either the parents change the channel or else they send us to bring water or fill water. As a child watches such things, his/her curiosity level increases. Example, “what is happening?","why it is used?" and many more. If a child dares to ask those questions the parent(s) either skip this topic or else scold the child.
Few parents understand the curiosity level of their child. So, they try to explain their child in a very creative way so that a child can at least understand the things going around him/her. Example, there is a YouTube series named "sex chat with Pappu and Papa" by "YFlims", where a child is conversing with his dad about the things going around him and his father explains everything in an informative manner so that his child won't be misled.
The next stage in school, where he/she have the lesson of Sex Education. Few schools either skip those chapters or else teach partially. And some schools try to teach sex education in an educative manner. There is one more point wherein schools/colleges/any clubs where they accumulate only either male or female separately and make them focus on their dressing sense, hairstyles, etc.,
Why aren't they saying in front of the whole class students where boys and girls are sitting and make them understand that "your way of seeing matters, the vision must be proper".If they don't say such , the lack of information can lead to more curious about the other gender, whether it is a boy/girl/anyone can take the wrong decisions (like wrong socialization, sexual assault, etc.,) in minor age. Due to any child if a child gets influenced in his/her manner, either he/she ends up with suicide or else overcomes by problems (like psychological or physical problems).
I felt counselling must be done to the victims as well as the people harmed.
If a child never thinks to take the wrong step the parents must be friendly and make their child comfortable so that he/she has the freedom to convey about their curious questions so that you (as a parent) can clear in your perspective by delivering the correct content. If you are unable to deliver the things please make sure at least elders (example, teachers, doctors, etc..,) can resolve who gives correct information.
Teach your
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